oh yes, we are all to blame for what happens to the wayward spouse.

my truck broke down- it was jstar's fault
i got fired - it was jstar's fault
i got a speeding ticket- it was jstar's fault

tell your husband to blame since i'm taking it for mine with everything that goes wrong.

if you want some financial uplifting-read DanF's post named What to tell the kids.

I am in the same boat as you with the money, only thing is i'm maxed for my income in my career unless i get a phd, took another %loss in income-teacher.

i think the was's know what they are doing wrong and blame us because they just can't deal.

Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline