DanF,

I just read through your posts and I am impressed.

I love how you handled the money discussions and division and your w's responses and reactions.

you actually got me all pepped up. for a long time i've thought if i filed something with the court it meant automatically the marriage was over, what everyone has been telling me and trying to get me to see is that i have to protect my children.

a cop friend of mine also said if h leaves country with the kids then the f.b.i. would be involved, but i think maybe h maybe to scared to go that far. but i never know for sure.

your wanting to get things done before the court decides since it's such a long ways off, got me motivated. i feel like now just growing my balls back-i have been to afraid to do anything.

i still think i'm doing and not doing things to get h back, bad focus jstar....


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline