It's just her audacity and this 'entitlement' attitude since this started that has to stop. There's history there that you guys maybe forgetting. When I told her to settle things out of court she took me to court and got max $$ out of me knowing full well that I didn't really make that much money after the house mortgage etc. She not only never said something like 'I'm sorry if it's too hard for you to give me x why don't you give me x-y? not only that she started asking me for petty bills and stuff on top and wanted me to pay DD's full school tuition and wants her to go to a private school! so with my strict robx and gucci attitude I've managed to set her straight...somewhat.

So I don't think my reply is over the top in that regard and I'm still debating sending it.

I sent an email to G4:

"Hey G4, sorry it took me a bit to get back to you. Just been another one of those busy days.

So about Sun I'm good with us hanging out and doing something fun but I'd be more comfortable going out than staying in. So let me know if you're up for watching a movie or grabbing a quick bite?"

Her response:

"Sure that sounds good, what other movies are you interested in seeing?"

My response:

"We can go see xyz. If not we can just grab dinner or since you've never been to xyz before we can do that. I'm up for any kind of friendly fun outing if you have any other ideas."

Her response:

"we can go see inception or shmucks for dinner and then grab some yummy dinner"


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again