I want to be part of the group...

[Jstar]

I do get some free services with EAP, and have all ready spoken to a lawyer thru them. there are immigration issues with h and him not lawfully able to work in usa.

i've just been thinking of how his message is so arrogant and follows suit with how he wants to generally take shortcuts that violate the law.

i'm torn between loving this man, him being a hustler to the end, being a good role model for my kids and what he will teach the kids,.

i thank you #8 for your words. I'm also so glad to hear that other districts have eap. i'm sure you can understand how once you get to work with the kids, your problems are nothing and the kids are a great distraction and a great sense of support for me.

i just feel so much that i have been taken advantage of or let him take advantage of me since we met. i think that if my mother didn't pass away it would not have made me so codependent upon him and would have not ignored the signs in the beginning o his 'activities'