GAG,
Glad to see you posted. Holly06 is in this forum and she recently reconnected with her husband after being D for 3 years.

Here is a link to her current thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1735493&page=1

It is good to see that more and more people are coming back to tell the rest of us just how long this can take before the fog lifts.

Formerly "missherlove"

Me49 XW49
M17 T19
S16 D20

Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison