MLC likely...BPD possible...divorce pending

[MHL]

Lola,
That is where those books we were talking about earlier come into play. I think we that have taken our journey we certainly bring something more to our next relationship. I can imagine how different my marriage would have been to my W if I did all those things I have read about.

So, yes it would have pulled them up subconsciously. I ask myself every other day if she comes back to me and hasn't changed will I run from her in 5 years or will what I have learned about myself and how I should act in all relationships make a difference?

Answer: Don't know, there are no guarantees in anything. When it feels right I will jump, fall, leap with all my heart if I don't then I am doomed from the beginning.