Doc, I'll take my lumps for the poor judgment regarding the carryout. I gave her money for the price of the meal, and offered to take her back next time we're downtown.
She wants me to partner with her on the housecleaning. The I'm working and your not explanation would probably not go over well. It's probably a sesitive topic. I'll perform small cleaning tasks on a more frequent basis, and tell her I've done them. That should put that problem to rest.
CL
Chose your battles CL I l know what you mean by the “I'm working and you’re not explanation would probably not go over well. “ I don’t know why we (you and I) have to try to help our W with their problems and self esteem when we are “on our own”...
BTW I did NOT mean don’t do house work…. We share here even though “I” am the one going to school all day and W sits home... (I do the bathrooms)... I used to load the dish washer but I never got the hang of “How W wanted it loaded” so one day she said “I’ll just do it myself”.. Ok fine with me… I do rinse off my dishes though and clean up when I cook...
Well need to get back to studying three finals tomorrow Later
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
