i feel like this is a power struggle and i do not want to conceit when i m riding the bust with 2 kids to work and do not have anyone to watch kids.
i can not pay my mortgage and daycare. what choices do i have?
It doesn't sound like you have many choices at all. I'm so sorry that things are tough for you.
This thought occurred to me when you mentioned your being a teacher (I'm a teacher, too). Do you have an employee assistance program as a part of your benefits as a state employee (and I'm assuming you're a state employee as a teacher)? If you do, then you're entitled to various services through your EAP. You would have access to counseling services and legal services, free of charge to you. Right now, I'm leaning toward your accessing legal services, of course. It sounds like you need some assistance and that your H isn't going to do the right thing without a kick in the pants.
I'm glad you had some fun with arts and crafts today, though I'm not a huge fan of glitter! You're braver than I!
