Originally Posted By: Taylor
but I just got tired of hoping, obsessing, crying, putting my life on hold. and by letting all that go, it made me feel 100% better.


THAT

Is what detaching is all about.

It clears your head.

Let's you work on you.

Let's you heal.

Let's you see things differently.

Let's you be patient.

Let's you understand.

Let's you feel compassion.

Let's you grow...

And much more.

Look it is your choice what you want to do and what you can handle.

Quote:
He can do whatever he wants.


And he will...

The question is are you going to make a choice based on a reaction to his?

Or

Make your own.

Not as a victim of someone elses choice but

As a free person deciding based on who you are and what YOU want?

A decision for Taylor.


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am