Puppy, I had a list of about 8 things. The two deal breakers were, a)he had to cut things off with OW. No more contact period. I would not share him with anyone else. b)we needed to start moving forward with some kind of physical and emotional intimacy. Slowly, but something needed to happen. I can't live like roommates anymore.
the other things were : - marriage Counseling -calls when out of town, texts, emails, notes to tell me he is thinking about me and cares. -flowers -cards -reconcile with our families -make plans and talk about future goals together -stop sneaking around and hiding/locking his phone and computer -oogle me instead of women at grocery stores
That's all I can think of. They were mainly suggestions that he asked for. He has started doing most of them already. I made sure he knew they were not demands..but suggestions. He is an intelligent and creative man..he can think of stuff too.
