Originally Posted By: lolawar

But when you have an ounce of hope...those texts and phone calls do have an impact


Recomendation: keep a journal with all the little stuff in it, he texted me at this time.
he emailed me
he smiled at me
he asked me to coffee
etc.

It is funny how it takes many of these small things to give you hope or build up your hope and it only takes one small negative to tear it all down.

Hey I am Mr. Positive Mental Attitude, but the only way I keep that up is that I nuture my HOPE daily. Where is the positive in the day, if I don't have one then I look back and see how far I have come in a month, 2 months, 6 months and it gives me hope.

Just last week, my W sent me an email that took me right out of that HOPE HIGH I was on. I broke out my journal and started working backwards in time writing down all the little insignificant positive things that have happened. I only got to go back about 2 or 3 weeks and I had filled the page.

Point is HOPE is what keeps me going so I have to feed my HOPE.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13 ....Love always Hopes.....


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

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