PEI I do get once you are GALing you aren't paying attention so much to texts and phone calls. But when you have an ounce of hope...those texts and phone calls do have an impact...whether we want to admit it or not....no matter how much fun we are having.
GALing is a great thing...but time and space are even better.
lola ... even when you don't have an ounce of hope those texts and phone calls can have an impact ... if you haven't DETACHED. That should be your focus right now.
And from where I sit, time and space are necessary, but also a bit overwhelming if you're not GALing.
I used the insight from some of those books to improve my R with S5 and D6. Certainly has had an impact for me. But I agree, I had to stop at a point too ... it got to be too much and I had to turn my focus back around to me.
Peace PEI
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
