Ellie,

Something in your post really caught my eye. First, let me say that I appreciate all of the "what I did right" and "what I did wrong" things. They are very helpful. But what I really want to thank you for is this:

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H really needs to see me as better than her and she is not worth my energy.




I really need to remember this one. I do want H to see me as better than her and she is most definitely not worth my energy!

Thanks!

Loved One