I must be dense because it would never dawn on me that a movie choice or the invitation to spend the evening (not the whole night, lol, but a few hours for dinner) would mean a darn thing other than "lets hang out".

I mean why all this back and forth? Why not just tell her thanks but no thanks. If she asked why say you don't want to which seems to be the truth. All this thinking over an invite to come over... that is not fun and dating is supposed to be fun!

Why not just get a group of PEOPLE (boys and girls smile together and just go out? Or just wait for me and T! Her and I laugh ourselves silly daily and you can join in. We are "safe" smile