thanks guys...I did read "How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It"...and found it insightful. I am going to have to read it again when engaging in a new R somewhere down the road. I think my focus right now needs to be on healing....where is my 'Abandonment to Healing' book????

I cannot wait for that to get here from Amazon. Reading these R books make me a bit depressed...I am reading about a R that doesn't exist!!!!!! argh.