Originally Posted By: lolawar

Does 'The Language of Love & Respect' apply to those of us that are on the brink of D?


This was the first book I read before DR at the recomendation of my best friend. Mine was simply "Love and Respect" maybe "The Language of Love and Respect" is a follow up. Dr. Eggerichs, right?? same book? BTW absolutely love the book.

Anyhow to answer your question, NO you do not do the things in most of the marriage/relationship books. Stick to DR/DB.

I have read so many books now on marriage and they mostly help me be a better me right now. If and when you get to piecing, that is when you pull them out.


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