Why does the fact that a WS filed mean it has to go through? There are a million and one ways to stall a D, different by state, of course. I wrote earlier on my thread that in Arkansas, go figure, you can have a divorce dismissed on the grounds of adultery. If the spouse is willing to put up with it, then the other spouse should shut up about it.
Just don't throw in the towel over a piece of paper being filed. If it is not what you are ready for, then fight for your rights as a human being.
