Not sure where to start, or end. WAW?

[john28]

Sandi - thanks for the those insightful words. I will be trying very hard to take them to heart.

The thing about leaving the house when she is there, I know the point is for her to wonder what I'm doing, and create mystery. But, when I return (or before I go) I'm going to be asked what I was doing... especially if I leave the house "smoking hot". Uhhh... ideas on what to say? "I went out with some friends" ? What do I say if she probes even more as far as which friends, who was there, etc.

See, I'm willing to do that. I think it'd work and get her attention. Problem is that I'm not sure I can pull it off without dishonesty, and then does that make me any better than her? What IF she is being 100% open and honest now (like I believe) and I create mystery? Could it backfire?