MLC likely...BPD possible...divorce pending

[lolawar]

Thanks Eric
I am reading 'The Language of Love & Respect'. I have a couple of thoughts and needed some feedback.

The main premise (I'm only 50 pages in) is for a W to respect their H and for the H to love their wife...unconditionally.

In DB- it advocates some type of game playing via 180's. Not returning phone calls right away...GAL'ing instead of pining...

Is not responding to your H disrespectful? even if it is a 180?

Does 'The Language of Love & Respect' apply to those of us that are on the brink of D?