Look you guys are in this action oriented mode, I get it. Your M is broken there's someone in the house (OP) you want to get them out and fix the freaking hole they crawl in through, right? Get the shot gun, shoot the SOB, get some wood, patch the hole???? Right.....Wrong!!!!!
But I will tell you something that could get you started that is sorta action oriented, that I recomended to someone else today. Sorry, no GPS, no voice activated recorders, no shot guns, no hammers and nails. Sorry, tip the hat to Tim the Tool Man ERR ERR.
I would like you to start thinking about something and write down what you come up with.
If I were to sit down with your wives/(husband Sunny D )and were to ask her what her marital complaints were/are about you, What would she say?
Be honest, don't defend yourself. After you write them down re-read what you wrote and rate them two different ways.
First rate them in the order that she would rate them #1 would be her greatest complaint about you, #2 would be her second greatest complaint and so on.
Second, rate them in the order that they "sting" you....#1 would be the complaint that you feel you are most guilty of , #2 the next one and so on. You get it right? Now add the 2 scores for the complaints.
The lowest scoring complaints need to be looked at first. Don't beat yourself up over this exercise, this is just to identify things that need to be looked at in YOU.
This is part of making YOU a better YOU. Look at this time as a Gift from your Wives/Husband. This is time that you are going to use to grow and improve yourself.
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)and were to ask her what her marital complaints were/are about you, What would she say? 
