Yup, divorce is painful... I had to deal with that too man... my wife spun a disney classic to everyone and trashed me to all of her friends...

I just decided if they were gonig to believe her then I dind't care what they thought and I would just maintain my compusure and my confidence...

I am not saying be smug, just relaxed and confident... Your db busting IS working believe it or not... She is having trouble dealing becauese of your efforts...

You aren't driving her away and THAT's whats bothering her... lol

YOu are working the marriage and it is driving her nuts lol