OK sorry but I respectfully disagree with some of what you are saying, Oldtimer...from a younger woman's point of view (doesn't mean I am right! )
Salt is a sexy movie and Romeo isn't attracted to #4 (right?). We women READ INTO THINGS and she might get the wrong idea if he suggests that movie. I think that email suggestion sounds all right otherwise. But this #4 is so aggressive that she needs to be told CLEARLY that he is not looking for anything serious or romantic.
I think, Romeo, that dating without getting emotionally attached will be very healthy for you! If you can do it, that is!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004