New Game- Exposed

[MHL]

But I know that I have the ammo for that, too.

CD,
You've been here long enough so you know what a 2x4 is right? Well here it comes.......unload your gun.....in fact sell it, give it away....this is one of the mentalities that need to be surgically removed from your head.

I don't say this lightly.....it is very, very, very hard to do.

"Why does it feel like I've been sucking at this?" My answer was "'Because I certainly don't see that anything 'worked' particularly well.

Your watching the oven, you just put the cake in let cook for a while. Listen this does not happen overnite.

I was right where you are exactly one year ago. I went out to a bar one night, came home (W was still in the house) and I literally expected her to come running out of the spare bedroom showering me with kisses and asking me where I had been. What a complete a$$ I was.

remember this word, TIME H@LL write with a marker on your wrist, write it on the bathroom mirror, in your car, your BB message, freaking everywhere man. THIS STUFF TAKES TIME!!!!!

BTW on the other wrist you can write PATIENCE......kinda go hand in hand don't they????

A continues
Lies continue
D still living like a gypsy on her watch
THEY seem to be getting comfortable and conning their families

Yes, yes, yes and yes to all the statements above. SUCKS BIG TIME. DETACH read the article from the link in my last post. This is a process and yes it will take time. If you don't detach you will eff up what you have done so far. Let it go, please....it is hard i know, it is unfair, but you do not control her or them.

However, I'll take your word for it and press on.

Good, but you have to dump the victim mentality.

I'll get some stuff to those I have exposed to to validate my "non-insane" position and to show them that "non-choice" is a choice.

I don't want to step on Puppy's paws...errr...toes here and Puppy chime in here.....IMO I am not so sure more exposure or proving that it happened is going to help your sitch anymore. In fact it could hurt your sitch.

Look, these people are not complete morons, well maybe some of them, but they know the deal. If they choose not to believe you so be it, you can't control what they think. You made your case let it be.

Listen, you know what is worse then the PA???? Its when your W is telling the OM and his family, her family and anyone else who will listen that you are a nut job, always have been and always will be. If you keep up the campaign past a certain point you validate what she is saying. Them being together validates everything you said.

I also want to add that "despite what you may hear-and I will withold my hard copies-this affair began in January latest and hotel receipts go back to mid April"

"How do you feel about being lied to by family? And watching family blow up their marriage and damage our daughter?"

Does it really matter at this point when it started? Yesterday or 6 months ago? She is married with a 2 year old daughter, its all the same.

Thanks again, MHL.
Brilliant. Made my day.

Glad I made your day.......return the favor make my day.......do this right.

You do not know how I wish I could go back and redo what I did, hindsight is 20/20. Man I am routing for you!!! You really have a good chance, this affair will fizzle and my guess is rather quickly but you have now got to let it run its course, that is why you have to detach from it, if you don't you will go crazy. Trust me I know....I did.