I don't know what to say. Actually that's not right. This is total BS! I'm glad your lawyer is a headhunter. I don't know what the proper db thing to do is, but for me it would be all out war. I mean F ing our lives all up is one thing, but putting the kids in that situation is bullshit.
I'm behind you whatever you do. Make sure you take the time to take care of yourself. Stick it ou til the end on here. You have friends who want to listen and quite frankly, you are going to need this outlet.
I'm praying for you bud.
ADAPT. OVERCOME. IMPROVISE. -Tom Highway
Me: 43 W: 40 S12 & S9 Married 17yrs Together 20yrs