What on earth are THEY saying to lead you to think they hold YOU to be some monster?
What on earth is she telling them on a factual level?
"He's REFUSING to sell the house"
"He still wants to be married to me"
"He won't let me go"
"I just can't take him anymore!!!"
"I just want this to end!!!"
It is her EMOTIONAL COMMUNICATION to them that says to them that I am "hurting" her.
THEY don't get that she is ONLY HURTING HERSELF. So they feed into it and validate her "feelings" about me. They tell her to "get away" from me, and that I am "desperately clinging on".
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed
