Originally Posted By: Allen A
As far as I recall you aren't doing anything to indicate you are pursuing her at all...

You not wanting to move simply because she demands it is hardly a solid argument...

Has she gotten anything else?

Not that I know of...

She's just going through teh roller coaster of an impending divorce and cant' deal... steer clear




Well she THINKS by not ACTIVELY PURSUING the divorce that I am "pining" away and "refusing to face what I don't want to hear".

She then gets FURIOUS when I tell her that I will do things in my own time. She then tells me how I am trying to hold onto her "with every means necessary".

"You can't face the reality so you are hiding from it".

If it's not on HER TERMS, then I am pathetic and clingy.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed