Seriously... I can't imagine you give a rats ass what they think do you? When my wife did a smear campaign on me I really was angry, but I realized those people that bought her stories were the ones with the problem and I just held my head high...
If you are perfectly calm all the time and she acts psycho over time they WILL start to realize she's got some screws loose...
I certainly wouldn't worry about what those supporters think...
You don't want to pack early and tip your hand here.. how long before she goes away and you start packing her up?