Just let her keep going... the crazier she gets the less credibility she's going to have with anyone...
I COMPLETELY get what you are saying. BUT, all her friends and family are there to "support" her and REINFORCE just how BAD OF A GUY and DESPERATE I am.
I just do my thing and keep the poker face. I do need to show her I am not pining away for her.
Maybe some early packing of some kitchen stuff we don't use and she is taking will drive home the message.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed