And BTW, if I had the chance to actually KNOW fro sure H was not lying, you better believe I'd believe it! I want to believe him so bad, but I just can't. What he's saying does not make sense. That she has not called him at all and there has been no contact. Well, they've been having contact for 3 yrs. Last time we were together he siad the same thing and then he tells me that he did talk to her. How can you believe someone like that?? He'snot helping with hte way he's acting either.I'm about to back WAY off, and I'm not sure that's the thing to do either. We've been spending alot of time together, and he runs hot and cold. I mean he never does anything really bad, it's just a distance thing he does that makes me doubt everything. I hate this dance we do, but I guess it's like Treesa said in Newcomer's-expect it to take a Loooooong time. A truer thing was never said. Rachael