Thanks, that is an important distinction. On vs forward.
I know that when the terms of ep Agreement are presented the venom will spew. But I know that I have the ammo for that, too.
"It's not fair" You are right. I will lose 80K and walk with 70. You get to walk with only a 20K loss.
"You are being vindictive" Actually, no. If I were vindictive, I would sue for full custody; sue you both for defamation of character (and I have the proof); and if the situation were reversed and I had the affair, you actions would be much harsher than mine. I just want to be away from your lies and get on with a better life."
