my msg to H:

i've given u 3 times to c the kids, mon tues wed u declined on all, y? r u that afraid to c them? please stop working against us. be nice things will change, be positive, things will change.

this is msg i get from h

Wow hello jstar.
I don't work agains you I toll you change and we will see baby step I want to have time with my kids I will gave you $ but is went you get a call and then call me to come see my kids went I am at work.. sorry if I can't come and see my kids went you want me too. (And don't 4get the thing you sayd about me my truck and all......) so I go on what you say .

what should i respond with?


Me 39 H 30
d 18 previous marriage
d 2.5 with H
s 4.5months with H
Seperation Nov09
july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline