Still confused??? Just believe what is said. THe other way to look at it, if is the actual truth, would you believe him anyway?? if it is the actual truth and there were some way for me to know it..sure I'd believe him (heck after all he is aparently ld anyway)....I am not however a believer in lying to save the feelings of the other...lying does nothing for us in the end..with holding info is one form of deception but out right lying when asked a direct question is in my opinion detrimental..how can you have an intimate relationship with someone if you are not honest with them???
