Hi, here is my 2 cents. My phsygolist always says, " beleive what they are saying, because they want you to believe it, even if it is not the truth". I guess that still makes it hard to interupt, but another saying, "Listen to the message, not the messenger," sheds a bit more light. I think what everyone is trying to say, is take what is said to heart, even if it is a lie, a known lie, the reason for the message is more important then the actual message. For instance it may be a simple as "I don't want to hurt you", that they themselves what to deperately believe thier own "lie" and by lying is some sort of twisted attempt to "fix" things within themselves.
Still confused??? Just believe what is said. THe other way to look at it, if is the actual truth, would you believe him anyway??
