Hey guys, Just want to get some thoughts. If W and I aren't really talking do I bring up the mediation again? Or do I just wait to see what happens in the next few days/weeks as while S is away we hardly talk at all? I’m just not sure where we stand right now as our last argument 3 weeks ago when we were fighting she was just going to use her lawyer and I said I would use mine. Then when we were calm and just talking on the phone she said she wanted to hear what I had to say. (Maybe it’s just a lot of crap)!! However it would be a few hundred vs. a few thousand for both of us, and she thinks I’m out to screw her!!
As much as this sucks this was her choice to throw in the towel, just like it was her choice to have the affair.
I just don’t think we have done everything in our M and feel she will have great regret for not trying after it's all said and done. (That’s just how I feel).
Who knows any more just trying to keep busy, but just tend to stress out more when trying to do to much!!I think when S comes back I will take a few days with him and go to the Outer Banks and relax!!
Well Thanks Guys have to study for last midterm talk later
