I know! I'd love it if my H did everything hers did. Your right. We'll never know. We do know what they've done and that it's VERY HARD to trust them after that wondering if since they've lied to us before, are they doing it again? I don't have any answers and I think I'm probably bugging my H too much about it now. I'm needing reassurance, and I don't think it's too much to ask him for it. I think they should help us along in trusting them again, and be willing to listen to us. I emialed my H this morning telling him I was sorry I called him so late last night, but that I needed his reassurance and to please understand. He has not emailed me back and I know he's there. Hmm. what's up with that? Rachael
