Sorry Soliel - I meant that "I did NOT F@#% up our lives." Type-o.
You're not old and you have plenty of time to have kids. I've got a friend who is getting married next month for the first time and she's 38! People are getting married later in life these days and waiting to have kids. Healthy kids are born everyday! You'll be fine on that front. My cousin is getting remarried for the second time at age 52 and his fiance is 47 and this is her third marriage! I'm not sure if that's coming off as positive as I want it, but my point is, there is life after divorce. You'll be better than okay!
When you are happy as an individual, you are in a better position to determine whether a partner enhances your happy life or weighs it down.