How do I do a 180 when we've been living apart for 18 months? We were talking everyday but a lot of the time it was about work or house or kid stuff.
And today I told him I had time off in mid august and thought I'm come there and was timing ok with him? At first he said yes (after all it's my house too) but shortly after he called me back to say he thought it was underhanded of me bc he's planning and meeting OW (first time) on Aug 21st! So i told him I wouldn't come then if that's how he feels.. I'm devastated.
