Hi CL,
"I went to bed in the main bedroom, without asking permission"
Now that's more like it. shocked
" I think he wants me to start in the deep end, and feel the fear and do it anyway.
Hope it goes swimmingly, and then you can apply that to the rest of your life.
Don't make me get cross again or I may have to come over there and push you in the deep end myself! OR have a few words with your wife.Is she an only child by any chance.
Btw, raw garlic cloves put in your dogs food is great at keeping fleas away. Your wife would probably object to the smell though, but it does work.