Talked with D about trip to Borders. H DID initiate - wanted to "go do something with her." So, yes, he was trying to spin things. So much for my hopes being raised after this morning's exchange. D said H was still very negative last night about things. She didn't really want to talk about it - about what was specifically said. I took that to mean he was still telling her he wanted out, etc... She did say she thanked him for being willing to go this weekend. He said basically that he was willing to go and have a decent attitude about learning some things about himself. (Not that he was willing to work on our M but it would benefit him for his future.) SO: I guess I should be glad he's willing to go. I'm just disappointed that his attitude has not changed and I thought maybe it had, after this morning.
Still...I wonder what the kiss on the head/hug was all about. ??? Who knows!
I hate when hopes are raised only to be dashed. :-( BUT... just because I'm feeling sad about that doesn't mean my action plan has changed so I'm still on target.
