Wii, yeah I know I'm not ready. I'm not too worried about girls 1,2 and 3 because they're all the meetup group girls. Girl 4 is a neighbor and I'm kinda in a jam because I don't want to say anything that will jeaprodize future relationships with her family and I don't want to lead her on either because I don't feel that way about her. She's sweet and probably looking for validation/company like I am but I don't want to go beyond the friendly movie/dinner outing. But I'm not sure what to tell her exactly that's nice but also sets the boundary.
No problem, take the honest straight forward approach which is always best in these situations. Tell her you're gay.