Hmmmm....now I know you don't verbalize this to H so bluntly, is there not a bit of this seeping underneath? I'm thinking of Ellie's posts about your reaction to H staying out so late and missing his time with S.
honestly, it is simply his neglect of son...seperate issue but in some way compounded by his neglect of me. Has nothing to do with ow.
This makes a lot of sense. But how will you ever know for sure LL? I suppose I never will, unless of course he changes his story Could you flat out ask HER? I aksed her plenty of times during and after...she denies..denies...denies..
What if she said there was a PA? well then I guess that would either mean there was a pa..or she just wants him back and figures I'd ditch him if it were a pa.
What if she says there wasn't? she already says there wasn't "I know you'll never believe us (don't you like the fact that she refers to herself and my h as us) but it just wasn't like that..anyone can have a physical r"
I have a book called "Never be lied to again" (by David J. Lieberman) which gives some pretty well studied tips on not only how to tell when people are lying to you, but also how to trip them up and lead them into fessing up to stuff you in fact didn't know about.
Yeah, I was in one of THOSE moods when I bought it.
Shiny most of my time spent with h is in one of those moods
