Gotta agree w/Coach here. If H isn't manning up financially, perhaps it's time to talk to L and force H to do so. May not be much you can do to get him to spend time w/DDs, but I'm sure you can legally do something about support.

M & H: 40
M: 5.5 T: 7.5
OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09
Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10

still m'd, unsure how to procede

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