live the life i want. live the life i want. im going to keep telling myself this. what life do i want to live? thats probablly the question i need to answer.
im gonna need to think about that. maybe i dont know how to live a life i want..........or dont know what i want.
professionally,i'm good my likes: painting, working on my house....
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
You'll find that even when you don't feel like GAL, the simple act of doing it will affect your feelings positively. I didn't really feel like exercising, or eating well, but now that I'm close to my ideal weight, I'm so happy with myself.
Action instead of thinking is often the cure for melancholy and depression. Plus, a healthy body usually has a sharper, clearer mind.
in these past 9 months he's scheduled visitation and failed to show.
let holidays pass not asking to visit or how daughter was.
he's very inconsistent with visitation, he'll do good for about 2 -3 days then gets lazy, oh i can go do this, i can sleep, i overslept, i got busy. many excuses.
i've tried explaining the children need consistent regular visitation on a routine with schedule is best but falls on deaf ears
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
then maybe you need to document all this, go see a L and get him to start paying child support. He gets to be irresponsible and you are puttin up with it. Time for him to put on his Big Boy Underoos.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Gotta agree w/Coach here. If H isn't manning up financially, perhaps it's time to talk to L and force H to do so. May not be much you can do to get him to spend time w/DDs, but I'm sure you can legally do something about support.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
i've given u 3 times to c the kids, mon tues wed u declined on all, y? r u that afraid to c them? please stop working against us. be nice things will change, be positive, things will change.
this is msg i get from h
Wow hello jstar. I don't work agains you I toll you change and we will see baby step I want to have time with my kids I will gave you $ but is went you get a call and then call me to come see my kids went I am at work.. sorry if I can't come and see my kids went you want me too. (And don't 4get the thing you sayd about me my truck and all......) so I go on what you say .
what should i respond with?
Me 39 H 30 d 18 previous marriage d 2.5 with H s 4.5months with H Seperation Nov09 july i'm dim to dark - set internal deadline
