you're working hard, remaining busy, GAL'ing, taking care of your family and taking care of you and letting go of the need to defend yourself in arguments where there are no winners, defusing every fight coming your way, and all the while maintaining a great attitude of being awesome and happy, not wasting your time on crying, begging, pleading, chasing, gift buying, hoop jumping and any other wussy man crap technique that just plain does not work.
That's attractive to women.
You are handling it.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.