A new beginning to an end

[ImprovedRomeo]

It sucks about the random girl...that's just messed up. I realize there are temptations and the grass looks greener on the other side but how people actually go through with it without thinking about the consequences or the hurt and pain. All I can say is they're just self-absorbed and selfish people and I hate to judge.

I'm sure it makes you think about the family and kids and all that but you're still young. You have this chance to get out of a relationship that could've fell apart later on and let me tell you that having kids especially when you don't have family nearby to help takes a lot of patience, understanding and hard work. Even great marriages experience the turbulence when starting a new family. I have no doubt that stbxw changed mostly during pregnancy and after DD was born. Like a switch flicked inside. So start out with a solid footing and foundation...

You have a good head on your shoulders and you'll be OK.