THEY ARE NOT aliens. They are human beings who are screwing around with other people.
I think the sooner some of you guys face reality about "the fog" and "aliens" and just following "script" the better off you will be. I am sorry and I realize this hurts and it blows and you may feel powerless in the face of dealing with it, but to hide behind a simile is ridiculous. Here is one:
Wow, I didn't mean to get this sidetracked so much.
I guess I saw alien on here before from someone trying to explain his W and, to me, that one word does explain my W's behavior . I don't mind the 2x4's or being corrected. I WANT to know what I'm doing wrong. I don't think I'm hiding behind a simile or hiding from reality. I'm still going through this and living it every day. The person I'm living with is not the person that I married. I'm sure she's confused and hurt, too.
Let go, don't initiate affection, try initiating with her, don't move out, move out if she won't, WTF.
Steve, I'm really sorry I'm not the student at this that you would like me to be, but I am really trying.
Look, all that I was trying to convey to LSG was that I understood what it was like to see his "old" wife for a minute and then the "new" wife, the one that want out so bad, comes back so soon. Yeah, it does hurt and it does blow and I do feel powerless at times.
