Wii, yeah I know I'm not ready. I'm not too worried about girls 1,2 and 3 because they're all the meetup group girls. Girl 4 is a neighbor and I'm kinda in a jam because I don't want to say anything that will jeaprodize future relationships with her family and I don't want to lead her on either because I don't feel that way about her. She's sweet and probably looking for validation/company like I am but I don't want to go beyond the friendly movie/dinner outing. But I'm not sure what to tell her exactly that's nice but also sets the boundary.
OK I sent that email to stbxw about the doc and school thing. Now I still have to respond to the other issue.
Oh CG and T - I'd love to hang out with you two. My days and weekends have been such a blurr (not because of these girls lol) lately so let me know in advance when you're coming out and we'll plan something!
It's funny you said you'll never ask a guy out but if you didn't ask a guy like me out we'd never go out lol I'm sooo shy...actually afraid of the rejection that I'll probably just sit there with a crush on you and never ask you out. Maybe I'll drop a hint here or there to show I like you. I could never walk up to a stranger and try to pick her up. I'd have to see her a few times then suggest something open ended and go from there.
So what can I say to girl 4 to set the expectation? should I blow her off for Sun now and say 'you know I don't think I'll be back from my camping trip until later that evening, sorry.'
Yeah I don't like the idea of going over to her house when her parents aren't there...you never know which nosey neighbor's watching...even if nothing happens (and I assure you I'll bring a mace lol) people talk.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
