Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

You characterize it her ‘rubbing it in’, even though you also acknowledge that she was trying to be helpful. You are in the divorce process and you need to deal with that however unpleasant it may be.

So she offered to talk with her attorney and your attorney yet you feel resentful because it seems like you do everything. At the same time, you think she does things wrong, but you resent her for not doing more. So basically, you want her to do more, but do it your way.

I dunno . . . . sound controlling to you?

Stupid way of thinking by me isn't it? This is my biggest problem...too controlling. I don't even realise it sometimes. I'm glad that at least all of you are calling me on it. It helps me recognize my controlling behavior. It will help me to stop this behavior. I've been so used to having to be the boss/controlling for years with a lot of things outside my marriage that I wound up bringing that controlling behavior into my marriage. I really dislike my behavior sometimes. I'm trying to do better in these areas.

Thanks Dudess.