Then I get a text from Girl 4- she asked if I was still available Sun night. I said sure if she wants to change the movie from Wed to Sun that's fine. She said no that's wed but since she's alone Fri-Tue she wanted to know if I'd come over to watch a movie and she'll cook! ayee...I didn't know what to say so I texted back (while running to my meeting) 'ok we can probably do something on Sun. I'll send you an email later today' I didn't want her to keep texting me.
Um, maybe it's just my male hormones, but when she asks you to come over to watch and movie and she'll cook dinner that spells "BOINK" to me! So, just be careful about putting yourself in a situation where you may be expected to put out, which is fine if you want to, but not so good if it puts you in an awkward sitaution. I honestly don't think you're in a place to get physically or emotionally intimate with anyone right now. A nice night out would be OK though and dinner and a movie out puts less performance pressure on you and makes the outing a little simpler.
