No friggin "melty" man here. One thing i have learned through all this is that the only thing showing weakness here gets you is a total lake of respect from your W.
Don't get me wrong some nights she drifts over to my side and i would love to put my arm around her but don't. If she bumps me i usually just move away a bit. I dont want any misconceptions coming from accidental contact when we are sleeping. The only thing I can do is keep up the LRT and see if she comes around. The next moves in the R MUST come from her.
Funny thing is aside from this major trauma I am having a pretty good summer and she regular asks me now what i am up to. She also has started telling me what she is up to if she is not around.
